This guy........

has been amazing lately.  We had a rough go when Jake was first born, when he had this sexist thought that since I was the mom and not working, that I had to do everything when it came to caring for Jake.  Bath time, diaper changes, feedings, laundry, bottle cleaning, putting him to bed, late night feedings, everything was my job.  I was so stressed and tired that I couldn't take it anymore.  I finally told him how I was feeling and explained that he is a dad now and has to care for his son, just like I do.  

Now, he wakes up with Jake on the weekends and takes care of him so I can sleep in.  He also feeds him, changes his diapers, and entertains him without me asking for him to do it.  He also picks up Jake  after work when I have to stay late and can't handle 3 kids.  He never complains any more, and doesn't have that sexiest point of view.  He is finally a daddy!!!!!!  And I love it more than words will ever explain.