Friday, October 9, 2009
Couples Counseling
Yester-night, Dan and I went to couples counseling at the church. (we have to do it in order to be married there). Pastor wanted to go over our couples test to see how compatible we are. We did really well on the family aspect. We both agreed family was important and had a lot of influence in our lives. We sucked on hobbies. We both put how we like to be with each other, and sometimes hang out with other people. Pastor did not like that. He said that if we are too close it will ruin our relationship. He said that we both need to hang out with friends and couples more. I disagree. I only get to see Dan 2-3 times a week and i dont want to waste it. We totally failed the expections part of it. I really didnt get it but it was okay to fail. Next time, I know we will be talking about spiritual, and its not going to go well. i never say the right things and Pastor never asks Dan questions because Dan knows it all. So pick on me, great. Moving Dan in tomorrow. So excited!!! We have so much to do. Still waiting on a couple more RSVPs, if all else falls I can call, or make Dan do it :)
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Couples counseling... sounds like fun. What happens if you fail the counseling? Will you be able to get married there?
ReplyDeleteProbably not. Pastor will say that he cannot marry us. and that wont be good.
ReplyDeleteGood grief. I've never heard anyone say that spending a lot of time with your spouse is a bad thing... Well, I hope you don't fail! I'm planning on coming up for a wedding, so there had better be one! ;)
ReplyDeleteBy the way... I LOVE that you're short and getting married! Ha ha!
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